Moments Life
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For those who have grown up in less than ideal families subjected to one or more forms of abuse, some describe a defining moment that lifts them up and out of what feels like living hell.
An intuitive insight or an amazing event creates a breakthrough clearing an emotional escape route towards the light of a healthier life. Have you had such a moment?
Last week Tyler Perry renowned playwright, director, and actor spoke publicly for the first time on the Oprah Winfrey show about his tormented childhood. He thanked Oprah personally and speaking on behalf of millions of us, described a defining moment in his life some twenty years ago when Oprah encouraged viewers who were victims of abuse to write and come forward about their experiences.
She said writing and speaking acts as a catharsis for healing to reclaim power and control of the lost self. I concur.
I recently spoke with a woman who asked what my thoughts are about why some of us make it through the dark shadows of childhood and some of us don't. She is in a loving successful marriage of fifteen years working in partnership with her husband and her brother is a drug addict who is slowly and surely destroying himself and has been for the last thirty years. Is it luck, something in our constitution, or our connection to a higher power, that keeps us standing in the ring fighting, refusing to throw in the towel?
She shared an amazing event her deciding moment, when on the brink of suicide she literally made a bargain with God. "If there is some reason for me to stay alive, if you have some plan for me to fulfill, then let the phone ring this evening at 8:00 pm sharp" she proclaimed. "I thought how audacious of me to challenge the Almighty but I was in such pain that I needed a sign. I was truly prepared to die". As the designated time approached she became increasing more resigned to ending her life consoling herself with blissful images of heaven and the afterlife. At 8:00 pm for some reason she decided to pick up the phone. There was no dial tone. "Hello" Dee said. "Dee, this is your mother. What happened, the phone never rang"? "Why are you calling mom"? "I just had this feeling to call you and tell you I love you. Your dad and I are on our way to Bingo so I can't stay on very long" she explained...
Tyler Perry described memories of disassociating and the frightening sensation of leaving his physical body to separate from the physical and mental abuse he endured. Disassociation wasn't scary for me. Somehow shifting my attention away from how I was feeling made it easier to sense the thoughts and feelings around me. My intuition became a self defense mechanism that warded off the sickness in my home. And the defining moment in my life was the first confirmation that my insights were accurate. Knowing I could rely on a part of me that no one could touch or invade, preserved my integrity and sanity.
"Intuition is the mind's inner light". Paul Brunton Notebooks
Anyone other than those who knew my father intimately would describe him as a gregarious, warm hearted generous man, which he was on the outside. He was also very emotionally disturbed and had serious issues about women, his potency as a man, and sex. Playboy and Penthouse middle folds wall papered his home office which I found offensive and embarrassing. I lost all respect for my father as a man. I truly felt hatred towards him and struggled with the guilt of these feelings for years. His attitude and behavior was brazen like an adolescent boy. Countless times I apologized for his flirtatious and solicitous sexual comments and innuendos to my girlfriends and any attractive woman we encountered on our outings. But I didn't know fully his lack of scruples until I left home.
Anita and her one year old daughter came to live with us when I was sixteen. My father hired her to be my companion and our housekeeper. She and her baby were like earth angels bringing joy into my life for the first time in years. Shortly after I went to college she left and remarried. My father was living with his fourth and final wife and her two children. They hired a young foreign woman as a caretaker. She was just a year older than me. Living away from home brought more than a few breaths of fresh air. I don't remember the events that led up to the realization. The thought just resounded in my mind clear as a bell that my father was sexually involved with Bea, the new housekeeper. And simultaneously it dawned on me that he had also been involved with Anita. But the insight was not enough. How could I confirm this? It felt like my life depended on knowing if my intuitions were right, the deciding moments I've mentioned.
I returned home about once a month to visit my step brother and stepsister and my beloved sheepdog. On one of these weekends I found a private time to speak with Bea and gaining her confidence confronted her. I lied and told her I had already spoken with my father who admitted to their affair. I acted unemotional and accepting. Somewhat relieved she confessed. And then I approached my father. Cornered he had no line of defense. Shortly afterwards I spoke with Anita who also affirmed their involvement.
We cannot control the events of our past but we can certainly change how we feel about our self in regards to what has happened and free our souls to find real love and purpose for being.
I welcome your comments and questions. Feel free to post them directly or email me directly at: Stephanie@of2minds.com And if you have a defining moment you'd like to share I would be honored to read it. To learn more about me and the services I offer as a Personal Life Coach click on the Services tab in the right hand corner of this page: http://www.stephaniealt.com/ or visit my website: http://www.of2minds.com/
"Fine-tuning your intuition safeguards the future and opens doors to the extraordinary". Stephanie Alt, MS.
Stephanie Rachel Alt, holds a Masters degree in Counseling/Human Development from Bank Street College of Education, New York, NY. She is also Master Certified in Neuro-Linguistic Programming (N.L.P.) and hypnosis. Stephanie teaches her clients to use "intuitive intelligence", logic and reason, in daily life and decision making. She created "Of 2 Minds" Coaching and Consulting services, to offer these services; intuitive readings, intuitive coaching, conscious communication &NLP techniques in online sessions. Stephanie's work experience includes leading N.L.P. Training seminars, for NLP Co-founders, John Grinder, and Judith Delozier. She currently resides on the Central Coast, in California, where she maintains an office. Working with individuals, couples, families, and groups you can consult with Stephanie in person or conveniently by phone and online.
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Moments $6.99 Track Listing: 1. Nathalie :: Nathalie, 2. Momentos :: Moments, 3. La Paloma :: Dove, The (Traditional), 4. Las Cosas que Tiene la Vida :: The Things Life Has, 5. Amor :: Love, 6. Quijote :: Quixote, 7. No Me Vuelo a Enamorar :: I Won't Fall In Love Again, 8. Con la Misma Piedra :: With The Same Stone, 9. Esa Mujer :: That Woman, 10. Si el Amor Llama a Tu Puerta :: If Love Knocks On Your Door |
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Frozen Moments Between Life And Death $10.49 Frozen Moments Between Life And Death |
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No Ordinary Moments $13.46 If life is a journey, No Ordinary Moments is a map of the territory.... |
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Moments In Life $18.49 Cd Baby:351656 |
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Moments in Life... $11.65 No Synopsis Available |
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Miracle Moments: The Ascent of Life $23.34 I hope you find enjoyment, humor, and wisdom in the Miracle Moments of my Life My story comes in many different segments and will have some segments that have interest to some and not to others. My involvement in Real Estate might interest some and not others. Some may wonder how I could have involved myself in what many have called a cult. How I could have rationalized that interest? On the other hand, there might be those who actually want to see how I viewed Scientology. And the miracles it has wrought on my life. Some might be interested in the early history of my family and of my life. There are indeed some interesting stories and characters that preceded me. Others might be interested in my life in foreign countries. In Iran as a kid, or in Korea as a solder. As I wrote my life story, I realized my life was, indeed, filled with Miracle Moments Author: Sampson, Tony Binding Type: Paperback Number of Pages: 152 Publication Date: 2009/06/01 Language: English Dimensions: 11.00 x 8.25 x 0.33 inches |
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Real Moments $34.67 The bestselling author of How to Make Love All the Time explains that happiness is not an acquisition; it is instead a skill that allows us to find meaning in every moment by living it consciously and completely. Real Moments shares DeAngelis' profound insights and techniques for creating more real moments in all areas of life. |
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Tender Moments: A Celebration of Life $34.5 In this poignant collection of personal essays, short stories and poetry, author Patty Sposato shares experiences that engage the emotions and linger in ones heart. After launching her career as a feature writer and reporter for a western Pennsylvania daily newspaper, the Ohioan held editing positions with several national magazines and has freelanced. Tender Moments is nostalgic, humorous and inspiringa captivating work with dozens of treasured photos that make the text come alive. Author: Sposato, Patty Binding Type: Paperback Number of Pages: 428 Publication Date: 2006/11/01 Language: English Dimensions: 9.00 x 6.00 x 0.95 inches |
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Moments and More: Vignettes and Poems of Life $23.41 The evocative prose and poetry of Moments and More artfully intertwines thematic essays on Art, Beauty, Magic, Philosophy, and Matters of the Heart with insightful poetry focused on the examination of personally, profound moments that shaped and redirected the authors life perspective. These moments, first frozen in prose, poetically explode into sharp insight that penetrates both heart and mind. Both the authors prose and poetry speak to those who value intellectually and spiritually exploring that which defines each of us. It spotlights love lost and gained, dreams envisioned and realized, laughter found and tears wiped away. It laments the destructive power of abuse, yet it cheers the healing power of forgiveness. Moments and More gently asks the reader to consider cultural concepts that collectively define us, but, more significantly, it exemplifies personal philosophical and spiritual thinking that specifically speaks to examining and better understanding our individual selves. Moments and More, a contemplative flight through the abstract realm of philosophical thought, utilizes the authors profound moments as touchstones to ground us. More deeply, though, the illuminated moments reveal one mans poignant discoveries on his personal path toward enlightenment, discoveries suggesting he has come far, but still has a ways to go. Author: Jones, Brandon Binding Type: Paperback Number of Pages: 104 Publication Date: 2007/02/01 Language: English Dimensions: 9.00 x 6.00 x 0.25 inches |
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Moments To Remember $19.99 "One of the things we can discover in the time we have is that some things are eternal. The point to life is to discover more and more of what is eternal and to give ourselves away for those things that last forever. Here the Gaithers celebrate these moments." |
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Moments With The Savior $18.99 "With exquisite detail and gentle passion, Ken Gire depicts crucial moments in the life of Christ. In Moments with the Savior, we are there with Jesus, entering into his heart and the hearts of those around him as he travels the countryside of Galilee and Judea.Gire lets us taste the emotions, feel the sweat, hear the voices, and enter moment by moment into the life of the Master as portrayed in these evocative devotions.This marvelous volume combines twenty new meditations by the author with four of his complete, well-known devotional masterpieces. Gire invites us to share* Intimate Moments with the Savior that focus on how those closest to Jesus responded to his love and attention* Incredible Moments with the Savior that examine the profound meaning of the miracles of Jesus* Instructive Moments with the Savior that discuss the parables of Jesus and how they changed the lives of their original hearers* Intense Moments with the Savior that look at the human feelings Christ had in the midst of temptation, trouble, and doubt (from the Pharisees' challenges to facing his own death and suffering in the Garden of Gethsemane)* Insightful Moments with the Savior, offering new reflections that illumine the truth of God's presence in this worldWoven together in chronological order, these devotional readings lead us to a more intimate understanding of the life, teachings, and ministry of Jesus Christ. Here are two months of deeply moving daily reflections on the servanthood, deity, and humanity of Jesus, attended by Scripture passages and prayers.One of the finest, most complete meditations on the life of Christ in print, this beautiful volume will fan to a brighter flame your love and appreciation for our Lord." |
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Moments With You $33.93 What is the true secret to spiritual growth for couples? Dennis and Barbara Rainey know from experience that the secret is more moments together. When you are lifting up your relationship and the rest of your life together to God, you won¿t be able to keep the spiritual growth from happening. In the pages of More Moments Together for Couples, the Raineys offer just what couples need to get started or to continue growing in their quiet times together. These short but poignant biblical devotions are enjoyable and easy to use, providing a daily discussion point, prayer and Scripture reference. Married couples desiring a deeper spiritual connection with God and their spouse will come to treasure their time spent with More Moments Together for Couples. Promote strong marriages with this outstanding resource for married couples of all ages and at all stages of life. |
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Moments of Contemplation $10.99 "Do you struggle with the daily stress and oppression of everyday life? Do you or someone you know struggle with a chronic illness, depression or mental illness? Do you struggle with the daily stress and oppression of everyday life? Do you or someone you know struggle with a chronic illness, depression or mental illness? Moments of Contemplation is a very good example of what God can do for you as He did for the author, Lynn Pinkham. This is an inspiration filled book, with bits and pieces of the author's life, set into devotional style. Each devotional is a word picture of God's handiwork, power and magnificent love. Lynn Pinkham, shares her struggles and God's triumphs in her life. Moments of Contemplation is a book you will want to read more than once." |
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Everyday Moments With God (Hardcover) $18.88 This brand-new prayer collection is designed for those ?everyday moments? in your life?the tired moments, the stressed-out moments, the joyful moments, the tearful moments, the peaceful and chaotic moments. . . Dozens of practical and encouraging prayers, complemented by related scripture selections, will inspire you to strengthen your heart-connection to the heavenly Father. God really does care about every moment in your life! |
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Moments in the Life of a Scientist $70.1 Bruno Rossi has long been an influential figure in diverse areas of physics and in this volume he presents a fascinating account of his life and work as an experimental physicist. He discusses his scientific contributions, from experiments that played a major role in establishing the nature and properties of cosmic rays to those establishing the existence of a solar wind and others that laid the foundations of Xray astronomy. Rossi provides close insight into his actual experiences as a scientist and the motivations that gave direction to his research, and he recounts the beginning of very significant stages in high energy physics and space research. He writes evocatively of the many places where he workedof Florence, Arcetri, Padua, and Venice, of the mountains of Colorado and the deserts of New Mexico. His narrative also provides insight into the life of a Jewish family in fascist Italy. The text is accompanied by photographs taken throughout Rossis career. Author: Rossi, Bruno Binding Type: Paperback Number of Pages: 232 Publication Date: 2008/07/31 Language: English Dimensions: 9.00 x 6.00 x 0.53 inches |
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Moments in My Life: Poems by $20.5 In this oneoff book, Heather Harvey has written poems about the love, life, loneliness and spirituality, which has kept her hope alive through her turbulent years. Now aged 59, she has been in a wheelchair for 11 years, with Multiple Sclerosis. She has been a vegetarian (no meat and no fish) for 9 years, as she cares about animals and the environment. She now lives in a nursing and residential home, because of her many disabilitys, where she has been for 3 years. She loves music, especially from the 60s and also new age music which calms her down. Author: Harvey, Heather Binding Type: Paperback Number of Pages: 76 Publication Date: 2006/09/01 Language: English Dimensions: 9.00 x 6.00 x 0.18 inches |
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Defining Moments (Unabridged) $11.54 This is a book about work choices and life choices, and the critical points, or defining moments, at which the two become one.... |
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Gifted Moments $15.99 "These poems are a gift from God. As you read the subject matter of 'Gifted Moments, ' you will discover poems of several flavors such as spiritual, family, love, employment and church life. Some poems will make you laugh, others will make you seriously think, some will stir up memories, while others will leave you encouraged. My style of writing tends to tell a story. Perhaps you will find your story or perhaps you will relate to a particular poem in a life-changing way. Maybe you will be blessed with one of those 'aha' moments. 'Gifted Moments' is unique because there is something for everyone and everyone can relate. It is my prayer that as you read through its pages, you will find it to be a conduit for a closer walk with our Savior. May you be inspired, encouraged and most wonderfully blessed. Maranatha Patricia Jackson Allen was born in Birmingham, Alabama. Raised in a culture that said 'children are to be seen and not heard, ' Pat found her voice in the pen. Her father was a Literature Evangelist, which means as a child she traveled a lot. This afforded her the opportunity to see life through many different lenses. She is a single Mom and has one adult daughter, Tricia Nicole. Currently residing in Altamonte Springs, Florida, Pat serves as an Associate Treasurer of the Southeastern Conference of 7th day Adventists located in Mount Dora, Florida. She has served the church for 37 years." |
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Moments of Truth $32.95 Who were the scientific geniuses behind some of the most innovative and important discoveries in modern medicine?     Medical science in the 21st century is continuing to advance, but the character of that advancement is now governed by research teams and committees. Yet in the 19th century – a century when there were many great individual discoveries in medicine – the contributions of four individuals in particular accelerated developments in each of the main branches of medicine. This medical history by Thomas Dormandy focuses on these four individuals and their "moments of truth" - Laennec, a French physician; Semmelweis, a Hungarian obstetrician; Lister, a Scottish surgeon; and Walter Reed, an American army pathologist. They are not well known, compared with their contemporaries in other walks of life, yet their moments of truth transformed the lives of millions. Thomas Dormandy is a retired consultant pathologist (MD, PhD, DSc, FRCS, FRCPath). He is the author of over 300 scientific papers and two books aimed at a general readership, The White Death: A History of Turberculosis , which was short listed for the Aventis prize and RMS book of the month, and Old Masters , a work of art history. |
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Moments in Time $15.99 "My Story Guarantees: To hold your attention. Make you laugh Make you cry There are "no holes barred " A factual representation, of tumultuous relationships', with my eight older brothers', and my six marriages', which brought about my demise. How I struggled within myself, and found purpose for a life that was "Out of Control " Zelda's Fitz Gibbons' "Moments In Time" is a touching, and honest account of a young girl that has to endure the taunting of her older siblings, as well as the antics of her overly, intolerant parents. Zelda is so transparent in her story This zany, off-beat, story is sure to captivate, and disarm its readers. Zelda carries her childhood emotional pain into adulthood, and after several abusive marriages, learns about the healing power of Jesus. The truthfulness of Zelda's search for enlightenment is a testimony of how God willingly forgives, helps, and heals. As Zelda's life becomes wholesome, she is reunited with her family. This book is a great inspiration to all who search for meaning and purpose in life. A sure to be best seller" |
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'Prosperous Moments of Life' (Indonesia) $627.95 A tiny frog darts away from the path of a majestic arawan, or dragon fish. Bubbles drift toward the water's surface, far above, and sea plants undulate gracefully. Mahmud paints an enchanting portrait of the golden fish believed to bring good luck and fortune. |
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Life-Changing Moments with God $19.99 "Nothing matters more than the Word.> No devotional has touched Christians' hearts and minds quite like Daily Light. Now popular pastor David Jeremiah brings his insights to update this beloved classic for today's reader. Each day of the year, readers will benefit from one of Dr. Jeremiah's favorite scripture-based devotions. He has paraphrased Scriptures from the NKJV in first and second person so that readers can understand clearly that God's Word is personally directed to them: "Be strong in the Lord and in the power of His might" (Eph. 6:10); "Thanks be to God, who gives you the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ" (1 Cor. 15:54); "You shall know the truth and the truth shall make you free" (James 1:25). Each daily devotion also includes a short prayer from Dr. Jeremiah to guide readers even further into scriptural meditation. >>Two-toned, debossed LeatherSoft cover lends an air of warm elegance >Two-color interior features clean black type framed by copper metallic background imagery >Silk ribbon makes it easy for readers to find their place>" |
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There Are Moments in Life: Adventure Stories $52.99 Author: Schmitt, Jacob Binding Type: Hardcover Number of Pages: 126 Publication Date: 2011/08/12 Language: English Dimensions: 9.02 x 5.98 x 0.44 inches |
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Life Altering Moments $28.59 Author: Belle, Catherin Elizabet Binding Type: Paperback Number of Pages: 114 Publication Date: 2009/08/26 Language: English Dimensions: 6.00 x 9.02 x 0.27 inches |
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Special Moments In Life $27.25 No Synopsis Available |
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Life's Moments Within $13.6 No Synopsis Available |
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Moments in My Life : Poems By $11.2 No Synopsis Available |
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Miracle Moments : The Ascent of Life $10.68 No Synopsis Available |
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A Life Shaped by Moments $16.53 No Synopsis Available |
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Moments in Life : A Book of Poetry $9.7 No Synopsis Available |
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Moments of My Life $15.59 No Synopsis Available |
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Looking Back on Life's Moments $16.53 No Synopsis Available |


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